Little Houses

What if, a group of mentors, who assisted children in temporary foster care or teens ages of 13-18 to develop life skills and socially adapt

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Founding Story: Share a story about a key experience or spark that helps the network understand why this project got started or a story about how you became inspired about the potential for this project to succeed.

I became a foster parent and later adoptive parent because I believe a child cannot raise themselves. They look to us as a mediator between them and the world. To understand the basic, everyday activities of socializing with others, feeling safe, and having a feeling of belonging; then projecting that into confidence, can make the difference in any child's life, both educationally and emotionally. Teens, who have a hard time being adopted often feel rejected and less stimulated to live fully.

Which categories describe you? (the answer will not be public)

  • Black or African American (for example: African American, Jamaican, Haitian, Nigerian, Ethiopian, Somalian)

Website

There is currently no website

Location: Where is your organization headquartered? [State]

  • Indiana

Location: Where is your organization headquartered? [City]

Merrillville

Location: Where is your project primarily creating impact? [State]

  • Indiana

Location: Where is your project primarily creating impact? [City]

Gary, Merrillville, Hammond, and East Chicago

Problem: What problem is this project trying to address?

I have been an advocate for foster children and adoptive children. There is a stigma in our society about adopting children older than an infant. There are so many children who do not have guidance to function socially and emotionally because they feel that they have no one. I and other mentors would like to provide a stable, trusting relationship with children who need assistance in building a life and succeeding at whatever they dream of.

My solution to the problem of fostering children or adopting children, after they have reached adolescence, is to maintain an environment of continuous, conducive learning surrounding life skills, social involvement, and education.  By providing a network of caregivers, mentors, therapist, and tutors; provide an environment in which growth is secured by promoting self esteem, confidence, and knowledge concerning the world in which they live.

Is your model focused on any of the following traditionally underserved communities?

  • Other

Does your model work within any of the following sectors?

  • Child and Family Services

Year Founded

2016

Project Stage

  • Idea (poised to launch)

Example: Walk the network through a specific example of what happens when a person or group engages with your solution.

I performed respite for a teen boy in social services, although misguided, he had a stigma of being ADHD with Mood disorder. His foster mom continuously criticized everything he did and expected him to be like her son. When he came to our home, he interacted with our family and we made him feel as if he were a part of us. Soon after meeting him and performing respite a couple of times, I found out he had been placed in another foster home. Last summer I spoke for the "Heart Gallery" at a function; I found out that he was still in the system and unadopted. he is almost 18 and has been from place to place. I want all of the children to know, " You are wanted and can make a difference in this world." "You have a connection and a home"

Impact: What was the impact of your work last year? Please also describe the projected future impact for the coming years.

Currently this is just an idea that I would like to facilitate after graduating from Walden University with my Phd in Health Sciences. I am currently beginning my work towards a dissertation.

Organization Type

  • nonprofit/NGO/citizen sector

Annual Budget

  • $500k - $1m

Financial Sustainability Plan: What is your solution’s plan to ensure financial sustainability?

I plan to engage a grant writer and learn from them about creating an influx of revenue to support this plan. With the Department of Social services and President Obama's reinvestment act, we should be able to connect with the city's being serviced for additional revenue and support.

Unique Value Proposition: How else is this problem being addressed? Are there other organizations working in the same field, and how does your project differ from these other approaches?

This problem is being addressed by the Indiana Department of Child and Family services, benchmark, White's and other agencies that promote foster parenting and adoption. However, sense I was a foster parent and know the system, there are portions lacking. The biggest part is "permanency", along with socialization, and focus on mentoring and education. My children were formally in an orphanage and in that setting, especially with sibling groups, bonding and "familial" attachment is difficult due to split placement. Children learn different things, good and bad, from their placements.

Reflect on the Field and its Future: Stepping outside of your project, what do you see as the most important or promising shifts that can advance children’s wellbeing?

Children need to know that there is someone or some place they can depend upon. Just because they turn 18 or 21, that does not mean, you're on your own or alone. There is a chance for feeling a part of a bigger group, which promotes "self esteem' and "independence". Social learning and a sense of belonging are needed, especially in the case of older children, not being adopted. Sibling groups will definitely have a chance to bond a create a "family." With these tools, children will learn to cope, thrive, and become productive.

Source: How did you hear about the Children’s Wellbeing Challenge? (the answer will not be public)

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Thank you Christy, I really appreciate the information and begin to inquire.  I do have contacts in Indianapolis.  I have tried to talk with workers in the system here in my city but no one wants to overstep the others boundaries. One is strictly foster care, another is strictly adoption.  There is no in between.

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